Be a better girlfriend.

alieg-heartsfall:

  • You don’t need to know where he is every minute of the day. You need to trust him.
  • It’s not all about you. It’s not what he’s getting you for your birthday, anniversary, or Valentine’s day. Stop being so selfish.
  • I’m sure he thinks you look beautiful whether you are in sweats or a little black dress. But it’s not cute when you stop trying. Don’t stop trying.
  • Stop flirting with his friends. I don’t care if you don’t even think it’s flirting. His friends aren’t that funny for you to be giggling at every joke. Remember why you are even talking to them. They don’t need to think you’re the best girlfriend in the world, only he needs to think that.
  • Stop talking crap about him to your friends. Eventually, they’ll hate him when you need them to be the most supportive people for your relationship. I understand that you are trying to get things off of your chest, but you can’t talk to him about that? You’re only messing everything up for yourself.
  • Share everything. Words, music, pillows, food, feelings, anything.
  • Stop being an emotional wreck when that time of the month comes. I know it hurts, but there is no need for throwing plates.
  • If you start to like someone else, you are better off telling him before you cheat. You will forever be the whore that fucked up his life. Do you really want that label?
  • Ask yourself why you are crying before you start to blame him.
  • He’ll listen to you if you listen to him.
  • If he wants to be with his friends, go spend time with your friends. Value your time together, and your time apart.
  • Ask him how he is feeling. Don’t just assume he is okay because he isn’t saying anything. That’s the first mistake in every argument.

YESSIR.

  • Stop talking crap about him to your friends. Eventually, they’ll hate him when you need them to be the most supportive people for your relationship. I understand that you are trying to get things off of your chest, but you can’t talk to him about that? You’re only messing everything up for yourself.
  • He’ll listen to you if you listen to him.
  • Ask yourself why you are crying before you start to blame him.
  • Stop being an emotional wreck when that time of the month comes. I know it hurts, but there is no need for throwing plates.
  • You don’t need to know where he is every minute of the day. You need to trust him.
  • Stop being so selfish.

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